Anxious People | Book Review

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Moments of laughter, tears, and shock await.

Close-up of “Anxious People” by Fredrik Backman held in my hand for my book review.

This was my favourite book of 2024, out of the 15 I read that year. I devoured it in three days because the intrigue made it impossible to put down.

This book arrived in my life as a birthday gift from my brother, one he had read, loved, and felt I needed to experience for myself. I had never read Fredrik Backman before, so I opened it with no expectations, just curiosity. I started it on a quiet Saturday in October and finished it two days later, completely swept up in the story. Every twist sent me straight to my brother, the only person who understood each gasp and grin.

Why this one caught my eye

The cover is instantly striking. A bold red with illustrated apartment windows offering glimpses into other lives. The raised lettering of the title and author adds a subtle tactile charm that makes the book feel special in your hands. The title fits the story perfectly.

A quick look at the book

Anxious People is a contemporary novel by Swedish author Fredrik Backman. It was first published in Swedish in 2019 and later translated into English, opening the story to so many more readers.

Backman captures the quiet struggles and hidden hopes of ordinary people, balancing wit with deep emotional truth.

It explores mental health, cross‑generational relationships, family dynamics, and financial and economic pressures, while unpacking what it truly means to forgive others and yourself. Set in a small Swedish town, the story unfolds with a gentle Scandinavian charm.

Its very high rating on Goodreads, from an exceptionally large number of readers, speaks to how deeply it resonates.

What stayed with me

Humour, drama, intrigue, and mystery intertwine seamlessly in this gem of a book. I laughed, cried, and gasped, sometimes all within a few pages. Each reveal, whether small or significant, reframed a character or moment I thought I understood. Some reveals stopped me for a moment, and I needed to absorb what I’d just learned. One line in particular lingered long after I closed the book:

We need to be allowed to convince ourselves that we are more than the mistakes we made yesterday. That we are all of our next choices too. All of our tomorrows.

By the end, I saw most of the characters differently, with a deeper understanding of how much we assume and how often we are wrong. This story made me pause more than once to reflect on the fragility of life, the complexity of people, and how often we misread what is right in front of us.

As the layers peeled back, I found myself connecting more deeply with the cast. What begins as a chaotic, almost absurd situation slowly reveals the very real, very human struggles beneath the surface. Backman’s portrayal of anxiety felt especially true, tender, honest, and quietly devastating. Seeing it reflected with such accuracy stirred something familiar in me, leaving me feeling both seen and less alone. Another passage struck me just as deeply:

Unfortunately I think most people would still get more sympathy from their colleagues and bosses at work if they show up looking rough one morning and say ‘I’m hungover’ than if they say ‘I’m suffering from anxiety’. But I think we pass people in the street every day who feel the same as you and I. Many of them just do not know what it is.

It reminded me how many people carry storms we never see. A storm may be raging inside, even as calm waters appear on the surface. The book’s spotlight on mental health is handled with sensitivity and care, humanised and normalised in a way that feels deeply real. Backman has spoken openly about his own experiences with anxiety and therapy, and that understanding comes through clearly.

This book left me wanting to hold the people I love a little tighter, to move through the world with gentler eyes, to create space for people to seek the help they need, and to pause before judging. At its heart, it reminded me of the quiet power of kindness and compassion, the kind that softens us, steadies us, and helps us keep going.

Who it’s for

This book is perfect for readers who love character‑driven fiction, ensemble casts, and stories that blend humour with emotional depth, or if you simply enjoy a story that surprises you emotionally in the best possible way.

The pacing is steady and layered, not rushed, but always engaging, with twists that land at just the right moments.

In terms of sensitive themes, the book engages deeply with mental health struggles, and these moments are handled with care and humanity but are significant to the story. The novel also touches on addiction and infidelity. Overall, these themes are approached in a way that encourages reflection rather than feeling overwhelming.

Where to find it in South Africa

I have a paperback copy, and it should be readily available in store. Given the book’s popularity, finding a copy is unlikely to be a challenge. Online ordering is also an option, and delivery times are noticeably quicker.

My verdict

This is not just a recommendation. It is a gentle nudge from one reader to another.

Stories like this remind me why we read — to feel less alone, to understand each other better, and to find pieces of ourselves in unexpected places.

If you are in the mood for a giggle, a tear, or a genuine gasp‑out‑loud moment, this book delivers all of it with heart.

If you have read it, or anything else by Backman, I would love to hear what stayed with you. And if you have not yet, I am curious whether this feels like a story you might want to explore.

I’ve kept things spoiler‑free here, but if you’re curious about anything in more detail, I’m always happy to chat about books.

From my shelf to yours,

J


18 responses to “Anxious People | Book Review”

  1. I love it. ❤️🌟

    You describe the themes with sophisticated and creative nuance and a sense of deep personal understanding.

    You manage to paint a picture of the book – but a picture of how it feels without any plot spoilers. It’s a mysterious art.

    Can’t wait for more.

    Im currently reading a The Funny Thing About Norman by Juliette Henderson, and though I have just started she seems to have a similar range and tone to Backman.

    1. Thank you so much for your generous, heart‑filling comment. It means a lot to hear that the themes came through clearly without giving anything away. That balance is always a bit of a tightrope, so your words genuinely made my day.

      Looks like that’s one I should definitely check out. I love hearing which books resonate with other readers.

  2. Ek wil dit Baie graag lees. Klink awesome.

    1. Dis ’n wonderlike storie met soveel hart.

  3. gracefullysharkf1e9835009 Avatar
    gracefullysharkf1e9835009

    Oh my goodness, I can see my book wishlist growing steadily because of your reviews. The way you share about the book, especially the parts that resonated with you personally are really moving.

    1. Thank you for this, what a lovely thing to say. It makes me so happy to know the personal parts resonate with you. I always try to write from that place where a book meets real life, so hearing that it comes through means a lot.

  4. This was a great review!

    This sounds like something just up my alley. Adding it to my want to read list 💖✨

    1. Thank you so much. So glad it spoke to you. I hope it’s a beautiful read when you get to it.

  5. wonderlandmortally3152fb7594 Avatar
    wonderlandmortally3152fb7594

    You know, when you pray about things, God always answers. Sometimes we miss it, and yet it is always there. I have been given an answer in this review. Thank you so much for creating space for others. YOU surely are an answered prayer!

    1. Thank you for sharing this — I’m really moved that the review met you at the right moment. I’m grateful this little corner of the internet could offer something you needed.

  6. Thanks for this review. It sounds like a very interesting book to read!

    1. Thank you so much for checking out my review. Please give it a read if you get a chance. I’d love to hear what you thought.

  7. This sounds like such an emotional and meaningful read! I love books that can make you laugh, cry, and completely rethink the characters as their stories unfold. The way this book explores anxiety, forgiveness, relationships, and the struggles people may be carrying beneath the surface sounds incredibly powerful.

    1. Thank you!
      It really is that kind of book — you laugh, you cry, you see people differently.
      I hope you get to experience it.

  8. What an amazing review. I am adding this to my books to read list. It sounds like a great one.

    1. That makes me so happy to hear. I hope you enjoy it when you get to it. It’s such a tender, funny, human story.

  9. This was a great review and it inspired me to add it to my reading list. Thanks for the recommendation. And i like the added detail of the cover. Nice.

    1. Thank you!
      I’m thrilled it made it onto your reading list. Hope you love it!

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